2806 Customize Flash Player

I need to customize flash video player on my video site . current player [login to view URL] I want something like [login to view URL] branded specific to my site, player must be very attractive and streamlined. ideally I would like at end of work, I get a swf file + flv file where I could do small edits eg, logo etc In addition, player 1. Must be able to specify a "commercial" that will play before the actual video plays. In site admin I would set the commerical, once a user views a commerical, it would not show again until he or she clears cookies 2. I want to keep all functions from player on my server , where video doesn't start until play icon is clicked, I would like the stream progress bar, which has handle that allows to me to go to different parts of video, then play, stop, fast fwd, rewind player size buttons, then mute buttons , and volume control, and end of video I would like replay icon + share video icon like second example , player should have my logo, background of player would also be logo, I am still deciding on this, so I would like original flash file so I can change it. I prefer to see sample viewers that you have done.